The astrology for releasing shame is a great time to banish toxic shame!
Astrology King full moon 11-19-21
The Taurus Full Moon on Friday, November 19, 2021, is a partial lunar eclipse. It aligns with Algol, the most destructive star in heaven. It causes misfortune, violence, and sickness. So the spiritual meaning of the full moon November 2021 astrology relates to using honesty, faith, a strong sense of purpose to evolve your soul to a higher level.
The November 2021 full moon square Jupiter adds the risk of greed, immorality, irresponsibility, and excessiveness feeding into the destructive and brutal nature of Algol. But the lunar eclipse is also trine Pluto which encourages positive transformation and spiritual evolution. The lunar eclipse November 2021 astrology can help you access the deepest darkest areas of your subconscious, exposing them to eliminate fear and heal past trauma. Like a regular full moon only stronger, the Sun opposite the Moon of a lunar eclipse brings your home, family, and intimate relationships into sharper focus. Opposing forces such as work versus home, or what you need versus what you want, create inner tension and external pressures. This can lead to conflict and crises that drain your energy.
The lunar qualities of emotions and instincts reach their peak at a lunar eclipse. So use your increased emotional strength and intuition to overcome any relationship challenges. Subconscious awareness allows for an impartial and balanced look at your personal relationships. You will clearly see any relationship dynamics or negative feelings causing disharmony. A lunar eclipse represents a resetting of your emotions, clearing away the emotional baggage of the previous six months.
Moon square Jupiter can make you hopeful and enthusiastic. But exaggerated emotional reactions and impulses can also bring carelessness, irresponsibility, and excessiveness. Loss and disappointment may result from blind faith, overconfidence, greed, and immorality.
You may experience changeable moods, and changing tastes can cause relationship difficulties. Disloyalty would very likely lead to embarrassment or scandal when exposed. A tendency to lower your standards if dating could also have the same result.
Moon trine Pluto brings emotional sensitivity and psychic perception. You will feel things more powerfully and are likely to be transformed by your intense emotional reactions. A subconscious urge to evolve at the emotional level assists with the Jupiter urge to expand your horizons. It helps you focus your energy and grow in the direction that best aligns with your karmic destiny.
Psychological self-analysis is favored and you can access the deep, dark areas of your subconscious. You may also be driven to probe the feelings of other people and subconscious communication is possible. Intense emotional connections may result in new karmic relationships.
Eclipse Aspect Pattern
The quadrilateral aspect pattern created by the Sun, Moon, Jupiter, and Pluto is called an Animated Figure.  It helps you bring things to life, at the physical or mental level, using imagination, patience, and a lot of hard work. Repressed emotions are reactivated and made conscious and thoughts or memories are evoked.
The strongest influence on the full moon November 2021 astrology is the fixed star Algol. This most dangerous of fixed stars causes misfortune, extremism, brutality, violence, mob violence, sickness, and death. With the Moon, in particular, Algol causes extreme sickness, accidents, and severe injuries.
This eclipse is likely to have a detrimental effect on the coronavirus pandemic. Algol is also associated with genetics, mutation, and evolution. So the coronavirus will continue to evolve through new variants. If they are resistant to current vaccines then more sickness and death will follow.
Algol belongs to constellation Persues which is associated with “events affecting large numbers of people, especially those events caused by major meteorological phenomena.” Algol causes extremes and the eclipse square Jupiter amplifies the negative effect of extreme weather.
Book of the month : Healing the Shame That Binds You" by John Bradshaw.
The information below is also from this book above !
When the fear, hurt and loneliness of the shame in a dysfunctional family reaches high levels of intensity, one person, often the most sensitive, becomes the family Scapegoat.
Families are as sick as their toxic shame secrets. See my book Family Secrets for a full discussion of the dynamics of toxic shame secrets. Family secrets can go back for generations. They can be about suicides, homicides, incest, abortions, addictions, public loss of face, financial disaster, etc. All the secrets get acted out. This is the power of toxic shame.
The pain and suffering of shame generate automatic and unconscious defenses. Freud called these defenses by various names: denial, idealization of parents, repression of emotions and dissociation from emotions. What is important to note is that we can’t know what we don’t know. Denial, idealization, repression and dissociation are unconscious survival mechanisms. Because they are unconscious, we lose touch with the shame, hurt and pain they cover up. We cannot heal what we cannot feel. So without recovery, our toxic shame gets carried for generations.
More specifically, these families are created by the shame-based people who find and marry each other. Each expects the other to parent the child within him or her. Each is incomplete and insatiable. The insatiability is rooted in each person’s unmet childhood needs. When two adult children meet and fall in love, the child in each looks to the other to fill his or her needs.
By taking on the role of supplying his shame-based parent’s narcissistic gratification, the child secures love and a sense of being needed and not abandoned. This process is a reversal of the order of nature. Now the child is taking care of the parents’ needs, rather than the parents taking care of the child’s needs. This caregiver role is strangely paradoxical. In an attempt to secure parental love and avoid being abandoned, the child is in fact being abandoned. Since the child is there for the parent, there is no one to mirror the child’s feelings and drives and nurture the child’s needs. Any child growing up in such an environment has been wounded by this narcissistic deprivation. This phenomenon can happen in the best of families.
Once the drug of grandiosity is taken away, as soon as they are no longer the stars and superachievers, they are plagued by deep feelings of shame and guilt.
Another consequence of this emotional abandonment is the loss of a sense of self. When used as another’s narcissistic supplies, a person develops in such a way as to reveal only what is expected of him and ultimately fuses with his own act or performance. He becomes a “human doing” without any real sense of his authentic self. According to Winnicotti, his true self remains in a “state of noncommunication.” I described this earlier as no longer being in me. Such a person feels emptiness, homelessness and futility. Our authentic self is not really lost. It has been repressed until a time when it is safe to come out!
Needy, shame-based parents cannot possibly take care of their children’s needs. The child is shamed whenever he or she is needy because the child’s needs clash with the parents’ needs. The child grows up and becomes an adult. But underneath the mask of adult behavior there is a child who was neglected. Needy children are insatiable. They have a hole in their soul created by unresolved grief and developmental dependency deficits. This makes them adult children. They can never get enough as adults. Healthy adults are satisfied with what they get and work harder to get more the next time. An adult child can’t get enough because it’s really a child’s needs that are in question.
-The psychic virus of guilt and shame! Pay attention to how things make you feel and the catalyst. Spiritual hygiene is always a priority on this path!
-Astroworld death ritual was allowed to happen to stir ppl away from demons, shadow work and inner darkness. They rebranded evil to put fear in ppl about the ppl who are consciously entering into the abyss to deify and fortify themselves against the thought forms that have been feeding off our pain for ages!
Bonding with your dark goddess as you reparent yourself! 1. Wear clothes that symbolizes the dark goddess. 2. Invoke her by name upon rising from sleep and settling to sleep! Use your throat voice to increase the vibration of their name! 3. Charge a crystal with her image under the moon, chant her name while holding it in your hand! I recommend 77 times her name is called.
One of the most effective tools for connecting with a demonic entity are corresponding sound frequencies, also known as enns. Whether you’re trying to evoke a demon or simply invoke its energy in the moment, using a demon’s enn as a chant or a mantra can be powerful.
I will borrow this nice explanation from Zalbarath’s blog:
Enns are sentences (in unknown, demonic language) of invitation, admiration or requests for protection for particular demons. Enns were channeled by various persons. For first time they appear in private grimoires of demonolator Alexander Willit in 16th century and since then they appear in practice of various demonolator families (and lately outside of them too). Traditional demonolators claim that the same enns (or similar) were channeled independently by two different person in different location and that they stay consistently the same. Although we have no dictionary of every world used in enns, no knowledge about its grammar (it does exist, hence language), we know some words and are aware roughly what some enns mean. For example Ganic Tasa Fubin Flereous could be translated as Fire protect the flame, Lord Flereous. Here is a playlist of demonic enns.
It’s worth noting that each of the archetypes has a shadow. Jung classified the Shadow as an archetype in its own right, but essentially the shadow is an amalgamation of all the aspects of your true nature that has been rejected by the ego and thus not recognised by the conscious mind.
In other words, it is unconscious.
You could say, for example, that the shadow is all the dark and evil aspects of you that exists in all humans. Quite rightly you want to have control over your potential for evil but it is also pertinent to be aware that such aspects of your nature exist.
There are also aspects of your consciousness that you need but have been repressed in the unconscious. These energies will emerge in your personality as a shadow archetype.
Recognising your shadow archetypes when they surface in your life will help you identify trapped emotions, release them and heal.
Likewise, understanding the positive attributes of all the major archetypes will enable you to determine which archetypes are developed, which are dominant, which have possessed your ego and which you need to mature.
The 12 major archetypes offered by mainstream psychology are listed in the table below. In the second column, I have named Jung’s original archetypes and stated which modern archetypes I feel closely resembles Jung’s original.
I have also included Jung’s original 12 archetypoes in the final column. This column is given in alphabetical order and does not relate to the archetypes named in the first two columns.
OEDIPAL COMPLEX, WOUNDED INNER CHILD HEALING and the Wounded womb!
When we are born, our awareness is solely in the unconscious. It is not until between the ages of 1-2 years old that we start to develop ego – our connection to the outer world.
“By the end of the first year of life, if not before, the egogerm of the child begins to prepare for its subsequent autonomy. Initially this development, too, is sheltered by the mother, who supports and furthers the child’s growing independence just as she does its learning to walk and to talk. While the first postnatal, embryonic year still stands under the sign of the unconscious unity of mother and child in the primal relationship in which the mother is simultaneously world and Self, the “migration” (as we have called it elsewhere) of the Self from mother to child gradually begins. With this second birth at the end of the first year of life and “postnatal embryonic period,” the ego-development and increasing independence of the child’s personality become evident.” ~ Erich Neumann, Fear And The Development of Personality
The Innocent Child archetype is the aspect of your consciousness that can guide you back to the unconscious in search of innate wisdom. Jung believed this wisdom comes from the collective unconscious – a second source of consciousness which is separate from the personal unconscious (subconscious).
As an archetype, the innocent is the most unique. It has been coined the “Alpha to the Omega” a phrase associated with Jesus on his journey from being a mortal man to becoming spiritually enlightened.
What this essentially means is that as a newborn child, we are totally oblivious to the outer world. We live in a pure state of bliss without any awareness of the dangers and stresses related to life. It is also said that you fall back into this state of pure consciousness when you die.
The ability to connect with the innocent can instil this sense of utopia and trust in Self within you. Integrating the Divine Child brings a state of inner peace.
In some respects, primordial energies contain the purity – and thus innocence – of a child. It is the aspect of your nature that searches for happiness and is easily pleased.
The innocent even desires peace for your enemies and embodies sympathy and sincerity. It is an archetype you need to call upon when forgiving people that have hurt you in the past.
Thanks to this purity, people that have a dominant aspect of the innocent archetype in their personality have a gift for inspiring people to do the right thing. They can also offer hope because optimism is the primary motivation.
For all the positive traits the innocent archetype offers, the shadow side causes serious problems in individuals and the world.
Because the survival of the innocent is dependent on others, people with a dominant child archetype are more inclined to follow and obey. This can make them lack responsibility and ignore reality.
People that blindly defend someone “evil” because they have an emotional detachment to them are typically possessed by the innocent archetype; a woman that goes back to the husband that beats her for example.
We also find the innocent in people that defend political leaders even when it is blatantly obvious to “awakened” people that politicians have no interest in serving the population.
It is often the case that people living a sheltered life are strongly influenced by the Innocent archetype. They have subsequently grown into an adult-child and harbour childish personality traits.
People that are possessed by the shadow aspect of the child archetype are easy to pick out. If you blame other people or situations for your “bad luck” it is a sign of the child archetype. If you are moody or cold-shouldered when you feel hurt it is because you have not learned to deal with failure and accept your own wrongdoing.
You might also be precocious and difficult to reason with. Moreover, you shy away from challenges and ignore anything that goes wrong. In doing so you invite more problems into your life moving forward.
Yet every problem or situation you encounter in life is an opportunity to learn something about yourself. The shadow side of the innocent archetype acts as a catalyst for growth.
“This agrees exactly with our experience of the psychology of the individual, which shows the “child” paves the way for a future change of personality. In the individuation process, it anticipates the figure that comes from the synthesis of conscious and unconscious elements in the personality. It is therefore a symbol which unites the opposites; a mediator, bringer of healing, that is, one who makes whole.” ~ Carl Jung, The Archetypes and the collective unconscious (the chart is below 👇🏾
How to find your inner daemon!